Including a Duwi 05460...aaaaand its gone?

Hi all,
I really dont get this.
Ive got a Vera3 and a couple of items in my network.
I want to add a BushJaeger-set-5460 but it keeps disappearing on me.
When I include it it pops up and all looks well.
Settings can be made but as soon as my Vera restarts it disappears.
I can add the thing directly again but the stupid thing seems to forget is within a few seconds (as soon as restart procedure initiates).
Does anyone have a clue what to do?
Ive got this document http://wiki.zwaveeurope.com/index.php?title=Use_ZME_06443_as_Scene_Controller_in_VERA and ive read pretty much everything related to this thing but for some reason my Vera seams to be demented with an memory span of about 20 seconds.

Anyone?

Nobody?

Well, I think it indicates that something went wrong with the inclusion. That is, the Z-Wave chip inside Vera has decided that the device inclusion did not succeed, and therefore when Vera restarts and gets the list of Z-Wave devices from the chip, it has disappeared.

Just guessing, but are you sure you are including it as a secondary controller? (Assuming this device is a scene controller.)

Okey, a couple of days later and i wanted to startover with a fresh mind;)
I started again with the inclusion and voila, the thing got found:)
I changed the settings 13 and 14 to “3” and the wakeup to a week, as described in the document.
Tried to add the signal as a trigger and nothing happens.

Ok, lets try again: remove the device and add it again. Now 2 devices popped up for the same thing (one with the old name I gave it earlier).
Now I removed both of these devices and tried to add the thing again which added 3 devices!!!

Since I am seriously fing up my config with nonexcisting en especially nonworking things Im getting a bit frustrated here…

What on earth am I doing wrong???