Evolve LRM-AS - Pairing Help

I am having difficulties paring the Evolve LRM, any help is appreciated. nothing happens at the Vera3…

I see post that say to try excluding it first, but I don’t see any information on how to do that.

on the Dimmer instruction it just say push twice to include and push twice to exclude… is that the up? down? does the light need to be on? off?

thanks

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